There was many things but was some time ago now. The final straw was when I received something in the post that was similar to a P45 when i finally left but it wasn't a P45 and I'd never heard of it before. I ended the conversation by email, after the owner explained it to me, with 'OK, all the best'........ which I felt was a mature and nice way to end the contact. I then got an email immediately saying they thought at the very least I should apologise. Having a go at me. Starting unessacary conflict. And even though whilst at the setting I thoroughly cared for her children and got on with parents she wrote me a very false reference stating I have issues. The owner, parents or manager would never of expected me to demand a thank you from babies for giving them food or whatever. And I'd never of done that. Also I was shouted at by a staff member who wanted my position in front of everyone that 'I must earn respect, and I don't just get it for having the position.' I'd never dream of saying that to any manager.
Did not not show up on the arranged day and failed to reply to text and voicemail messages until late evening.