There was many things but was some time ago now. The final straw was when I received something in the post that was similar to a P45 when i finally left but it wasn't a P45 and I'd never heard of it before. I ended the conversation by email, after the owner explained it to me, with 'OK, all the best'........ which I felt was a mature and nice way to end the contact. I then got an email immediately saying they thought at the very least I should apologise. Having a go at me. Starting unessacary conflict. And even though whilst at the setting I thoroughly cared for her children and got on with parents she wrote me a very false reference stating I have issues. The owner, parents or manager would never of expected me to demand a thank you from babies for giving them food or whatever. And I'd never of done that. Also I was shouted at by a staff member who wanted my position in front of everyone that 'I must earn respect, and I don't just get it for having the position.' I'd never dream of saying that to any manager.